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For the longest time, I kept a respectful distance from the work and life of Mother Teresa. My path was so distinct from hers. She was a nun, and I was a New Yorker. Her mission was to serve the poorest among the poor, while at McKinsey and at business school, my mission was to help create the richest among the rich. Her language was love, and my language was logic.
And then it all changed. First, there was the inner shift within that made me open up to the possibilities of contemplative life, service, and love – as part of a leader’s repertoire. Then, I encountered the work of Jan and Ann Petrie – an award-winning documentary on Mother Teresa. And finally, through conversations with Jan, I gained first-hand accounts about this remarkable human being, leader, and saint and understood why she was the most loved public figure in her time, why she received such global adulation, and how she was able to grow her work into 125+ countries.
There’s much we can all learn from Mother Teresa’s life and leadership, and if you haven’t watched it, I encourage you to view my recent webcast with Jan Petrie where she shares beautiful stories and insights that will deeply resonate with you.
Today’s newsletter invites us to explore what may have gone wrong in our world in present times. It does so through the lens of a powerful reflection Abraham Lincoln invited the American people to do in 1863 - a reflection that I invite us all to do for our own selves today.
I welcome your insights, thoughts, and feedback, so feel free to write to me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Until our paths intersect again.
Welcome to Intersections…
If this is your first Intersections email, welcome! In this weekly newsletter, I bring a mathematician’s rigor and a truth-seeker’s spirit to some of today’s most vexing questions about authenticity, success, leadership, human potential, and more. I intersect science with spirituality, profit with purpose, East with West, inner with outer, and life with leadership.
I am a Professor of Practice at Columbia Business School, and founder of Mentora Institute, dedicated to creating a new model of leadership for the 21st century where executives create ever-growing Outer Impact through ever-deepening Inner Mastery.
I post every day on my Instagram account, share videos on my YouTube channel, and host a weekly webcast that's also called Intersections. And here's my website.
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© Hitendra Wadhwa, 2020
On Thursday, April 30, 1863 – exactly one hundred and fifty-seven years ago, last week – President Lincoln, in response to a US Senate resolution, proclaimed a day of prayer and fasting. The Civil War was still raging two years after its start, and one might expect that Lincoln was asking the American people to pray for a quick and positive end to the war. But that is not what he did. Instead, he chose to give his people a wake-up call.
Lincoln invited Americans to do a soul-searching reflection on where they had gone wrong in their path to building a prosperous and strong nation. And he suggested that they look not without, at the nation’s institutions or leaders or experts, but within, at their own actions. It was his suspicion that Americans had given themselves all the credit for their growth and prosperity, instead of acknowledging the debt they owed to a force beyond their control – the same force that was now in the war unleashing suffering at a scale that vastly exceeded the nation’s expectations.
“In so much as we know that by divine law nations, like individuals, are subjected to punishments and chastisements in this world, may we not justly fear that the awful calamity of civil war which now desolates the land may be but a punishment inflicted upon us for our presumptuous sins, to the need of our national reformation as a whole people? We have been the recipients of the choicest bounties of heaven. We have been preserved these many years in peace and prosperity. We have grown in numbers, in wealth, and power as no other nation has grown. But we have forgotten God. We have forgotten the gracious Hand which preserved us in peace and multiplied and enriched and strengthened us. And we have imagined, in the deceitfulness of our hearts, that all these blessings were produced by some superior wisdom and virtue of our own. Intoxicated with unbroken success, we have become too self-sufficient to feel the need of redeeming and preserving grace, too proud to pray to the God that made us.”
If Lincoln were President today, he might have invited the same soul-searching from all of us. And perhaps he would be right. For have we not, in this last century, grown in numbers, in wealth, and power as no nation has grown? Have we not largely been preserved these many years in peace and prosperity? Have we not, as a nation, been intoxicated with unbroken success?
Before the pandemic, when you and I woke up each morning, we viewed it as our birthright that the world was safe, welcoming, and bountiful. Our scientific advancements convinced us of our superiority to past civilizations and our mastery over the forces of nature. Ours was a safe, secure, and stable world; we could consume whatever we wanted, waste whatever we wanted, say whatever we wanted, do whatever we wanted, and in doing so we were being free and we were being “me.”
But along the way we perhaps forgot the gracious hand… that has preserved us in peace and multiplied and enriched and strengthened us – the hand of the awe-inspiring Creative Spirit that pervades life, nature, and the universe; something vastly greater than you and me. Perhaps this Spirit wished to tell us that all was not well in our earthly kingdom. It whispered to us on occasion, through the various upheavals we experienced in our outer world and our inner worlds – regional wars, past pandemics, ecological damage, global warming, and the rising rates of depression, addiction, and suicide. It wished to warn us that there are laws of nature and of human nature; that no nation can violate these laws for too long without consequences. We had been given clues.
Perhaps, in the quietude of our own hearts, we always knew this truth; that our lives were becoming too demanding, distracted, and displaced; a deep disquiet was taking root within us. And yet we found it too difficult to pull away from the allure of the “I-Me-My!” theme park we had created. After all, everyone was playing in that same theme park, making up their own rules as they went along, oblivious to any transgressions of natural law. Our happiness was secure, we believed, because we possessed – as a species, as a nation, and, for some of us, as an individual – bountiful talent, wealth, and power, and because we had the science and systems to triumph over nature if it ever fought back. We deceived ourselves into believing that all these blessings were produced by some superior wisdom and virtue of our own.
Until, finally, the Creative Spirit let out a primal scream. It found a simple device, a virus, to awaken us to the humbling realization that while we may have been powerful, we were never all-powerful. It has now stopped us in our tracks and sent us packing home to reflect, retrench, and remold our lives.
In what ways might we have gone astray? How might we have failed at being good stewards of all that this Creative Spirit blessed us with?
Perhaps we will only fully turn the page on this crisis when we awaken to a dawning realization that the theme park we were playing in was always a myth. That the trappings of science and success were never going to be enough to guarantee what we all are seeking in life - the reassurance of a stable, secure, and serene future. That the path to life, liberty, and happiness lies in harmonizing with the laws of nature and of human nature, for when we distance ourselves from these laws, we distance ourselves from, as Lincoln would have said, “the better angels of our nature.”
We need a Character Test.
Nancy Gibbs from Harvard’s Kennedy School of Government has written this Op-Ed on how the ultimate solution to the pandemic may lie not in experts’ hands, but in ours, collectively. I love the way she has posed very powerful yet subtle choices we face every day where our character gets tested. How many of these test-scenarios would you – or I – pass?
Perhaps the pandemic is simply amplifying the everyday trade-offs we face, the blind-spots we fall prey to, and the compromises we strike in the expediency of life. Once you have read this article, I invite you to ask yourself, “What does this reveal to me about how much I know my innermost motivations and the quiet consequences of my actions?”
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